To be or not to be is the ultimate question here. Is it okay to be friends with an ex partner? and if so, how can it affect your current relationship?
I'm currently in a very loving, devoted relationship with someone that I trust. Right before me, however, he was in a 6 month relationship with someone that ended on good terms. Neither one hated the other, so they decided they could still be friends. Upon finding out about his ex girlfriend, I was a little sceptical. I had never kept in close contact with my exes, not did I wish to. So you can see how this would be hard for me to understand and appreciate. Deciding to go along with this, I explained my thoughts and concerns on the matter and we dropped the conversation.
fast forward 3 weeks. I decided that I was going to go out with some friends from work to a party. I text my boyfriend to let him know my plans. He told me to have fun, and that was that. 2 hours later, I received a text saying, "Hey...I'm going over to a friends house. Amy will be there, so I'm going to give her the Christmas present I bought for her. You are more than welcome to come with me if you'd like." Okay. I already told him that I had plans for the night. But i think what really struck me is THAT HE BOUGHT HER A CHRISTMAS PRESENT!!!! are you kidding me? This instance brought out a side of jealousy that I didn't know I had. I let him have it...he knew I wasn't happy with this, but decided to go anyway.
fast forward another week. I was going to go with some friends from work to see a coworker play with his band. Again, I let my boyfriend know where I was going and with who and he didn't seem to mind. I went out, had a good time, and was home by midnight. I was asleep by 1am, but was awoken at 4am to my phone going off. It was Logan wanting to know where I was and wasn't going to bed until he knew. He had literally called me 60 TIMES! Obviously, I hadn't answered. I had been asleep. He was worried I had gone and slept with the guy that we went to see play (I had been seeing him right before Logan).
"So I cant freak out when you hang out with your ex, but its okay for you to"
"well....i mean...i dunno..."
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I'm not sure what to do now. I'm stuck, and a little confused, but I want this to work out. What should I do?
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